January 25, 2012

Baby Steps

So...how many of my blog readers made a New Year's resolution that has something to do with fitness and/or health? I know one friend is training for a 1/2 marathon, a couple of gal pals of mine are doing the "Couch to 5K" program, several friends have stated that they are trying to eat healthier. In fact, most of my friends are choosing to get fit and healthy in 2012. 

Being healthy is a real battle in this country, at least in my opinion. We have fast food restaurants on every corner, electronic entertainment and communication that means we never have to leave the house, lives that are busier than ever. Speaking as a homeschooling momma of 5, as a mother of two medically fragile children who require extra care, as a woman who loves to cook and bake and eat it all...let me tell you, I know all about excuses. I know how much easier it is to make something less than healthy for dinner because I'm tired, I know how much fun it is to sit and play on the computer when I really should be exercising, I know I'd rather be eating that bag of cookies or chips after a super stressful day at the hospital with my girls. I know. 

Yet, I am changing. It takes baby steps. In November of 2011, I wore a size 14 and was fast moving into a size 16. Today, I am a small size 12, large size 10 and not nearly so jiggly. I have muscles for the first time in my life. I am stronger than I have ever been.  In 1 1/2 months I have gone down nearly two sizes. I still need to be healthier but I am so thrilled to see results and it encourages me to keep going. Like I said, it takes baby steps. Everyone will need to decide on their own journey to a healthy lifestyle but I wanted to share my baby steps in the hope that it would encourage others. 

1. You absolutely must get motivated to exercise. Join a gym with a friend. Have a spouse or someone else hold you accountable. Talk with your accountability partner at least once a week. I joined a gym the week after Thanksgiving with a friend. Since then, several other friends have joined up and I've made new friends who were already members. I am assured of seeing a friendly face every time I go and this encourages me to get up and out the door. I am in the gym anywhere from 6 to 10 hours a week. After one month of this schedule it became a habit. 


I dance, I kickbox, I take boot camp and step classes. I lift weights, I walk on the elliptical, I spin. I try to do 2 hours every time I go. It's money well spent. I'm open to trying new classes and new equipment. If you aren't willing to try anything new or you are too scared of looking foolish, then joining a gym won't be much fun for you. I'm sure I look like a fool but I'm a happy fool and people like me for it:)


2. My second change, once the gym became habit, was to change my drinking habits. No more diet sodas except on the rare occasion when I want something sweet but don't want the calories. No more than one a week. No more 6-8 cups of coffee a day are allowed. I'm down to one caffeinated coffee a day and one decaf in the evening. I drink water ALL the time. Funny but sad story: When I first joined the gym, I didn't sweat at all but would still get dizzy when working out. It wasn't unusual for me, I've never been one to really sweat even when working really hard at something. Now that I am drinking tons of water, I sweat A LOT in the gym. Guess why? I WAS DEHYDRATED BEFORE!!! Friends, please make sure you are drinking your water, you do not want to be dehydrated. I have never been a fan of water but now I have acquired a taste for it. And it has so many benefits!
3. Now that I've formed the habits of exercising and drinking right, time to start on correcting my eating. This is going to be a long battle. I cook and I eat clean most of them time, BUT my portion control is out of control. I also have never been a morning eater. I usually eat from 10am to about 11pm. Terrible! So, my first baby step in the eating arena was to start my day off with a healthy breakfast. Everything I have read says that multiple small meals a day is best, starting right when I wake up. When I get up, I make a green smoothie (recipe and photos to come later) OR I have a piece of toasted Ezekiel bread with pink grapefruit on the side. I will occasionally have a cup of green tea with it also. I feel so much more energized when I do this! It is *almost* a habit, in another week I will start working on healthy snacks and portion control- although I'm doing that some already. Some other eating related baby step I have taken is to eat a lot more fruit and to cook differently for the family. More on that to come at a later date. Rich is down nearly 30 pounds from August and the kids seem to be more energetic...


 I know I have a few friends who are trying to do everything possible to be healthy and aren't seeing results. Don't get discouraged! I read somewhere that it takes 4 weeks for you to see changes in yourself, 8 weeks for your closest friends and family to see it, and 12 weeks for everyone else to notice. If you get to 12 weeks and nothing has changed, then you obviously need to rethink your plan because you aren't doing something right. When you make healthy changes, you will see results, but you have to be willing to change...usually in multiple areas of your life. 



2012. Forever to be known to me as the year I got healthy.
Bring it.

January 19, 2012

Welcome to Holland

 Happy 5th Birthday to my 5th child! I can't believe how time has flown since we first laid eyes on Mira in August of 2009.


Welcome To Holland
by
Emily Perl Kingsley 

(with a few changes made by me to fit our circumstances)


I am often asked to describe the experience of adopting and raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel.  It's like this......

When you're going to adopt a child, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy.  You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum.  The Michelangelo David.  The gondolas in Venice.  You may learn some handy phrases in Italian.  It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives.  You pack your bags and off you go.  Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy!  I'm supposed to be in Italy.  All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan.  They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease.  It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language.  And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It’s just a different place.  It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy.  But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips.  Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there.  And for the rest of your life, you might say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."

And the pain of that may never go away... because the loss of that dream is a very significant loss.

But... if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.





Thank you God, for taking me to Holland instead of to Italy. Thank you for knowing that Holland would be a far better place for me than Italy would ever be. In your wisdom you knew that I need Holland in order to become a different woman, you knew that Italy would only stunt my growth. There are times that I think about what it must be like for those that get to experience the olive groves and the grape vines of Italy, but I get to experience wooden clogs, and windmills, and tulips in a hundred different colors! Thank you for bringing me to Holland.

Happy birthday to my Mira! You are 5 years old this week! I look forward to your future and seeing the person you will grow up to be. 

December 31, 2011

New Year's Resolutions

1. In 2012, I want to be in the best shape of my life. I want to run and dance and enjoy living! I want to run in several races (5Ks) with my girlfriends....and maybe my hubby, if I can talk him into it:) I'm already down nearly 20 pounds from this past summer and am enjoying dancing most evenings at my local gym. I also adore cardio kickboxing.  I am determined to continue clean eating, as I have been doing for over a year now. Finally, finally....I am no longer struggling with insomnia or RLS. I am no longer suffering from the effects of my bout with mono nearly a year ago. I am stronger than I have been in 15 years and I am excited to see what a new, healthy me can do in 2012!

2. In 2012, I want our family to really experience life. Last year, I set a goal to live intentionally and we did that really well, I think. Thinking so much about everything was good for me, because I was really able to see where our relationships, finances, and lives in general could use help. But.....and that's a really big BUT....we failed to be spontaneous at all. This year, I want to learn to be more spontaneous, to learn what it means to grab a moment by the horns and run with it, even if my dishes are dirty and the laundry needs folding. I want to look for the unexpected in the ordinary moments of my days. I want to take my kids on a road trip and stop every time we want to and not worry about getting to the destination. I want to love living!


3. I want to start a prayer photo book for our family. I've saved all the Christmas cards we received with photos. I want to get around to all our church family, our friends and relatives and snap photos of everyone. I then want to put all the photos in a photo binder, including the prayer cards of missionaries we support. Everyday, we will pray for a family in our book. We will devote that day to praying specifically for the needs in that family. We will still pray through our church prayer list every day, and of course pray and praise as we usually do in our quiet time, but I thought this would be a good way to remember those that are dear to us.
I love Philippians 1:3-5 "I give thanks to my God for every remembrance of you, always praying with joy for all of you in my every prayer, because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now."

And of course, I have the regular homeschooling and organization goals that any homeschooling, stay-at-home momma has.

How about you?